What Makes a Christian Home?

Each Mentoring Monday I share my reflections on what I’ve been learning from my “paper mentors.”  I am currently joining in a book discussion of Educating the WholeHearted Child by Clay Clarkson (with Sally Clarkson).  If you want to join in, visit our Facebook discussion group page.

Educating the WholeHearted Child: Chapter 1

WholeHeartedI was really convicted and challenged by the first part of this chapter, which is entitled “The Christian Home”.

A Christian home is never defined by what the children are doing; it is defined by what the parents are doing.  Your child could study the Bible every day, listen only to Christian music, watch only Christian videos, read missionary biographies, know a zillion memory verses, and never miss Sunday School or Bible Club, yet still not live in a Christian home” (page 20).

It is easy to put on those external trappings and consider our job done.  Obviously none of these things are bad.  It’s just that real faith is the result of a Christ-centered heart.  We must always remember that our “doing” flows out of our “being,” and not the other way around.  If we want to raise Christian children, our focus needs to be on their hearts, rather than on “Christian” activities.

So, what makes a Christian home?  The Clarksons say, “A Christian home is one in which the parents purposefully keep Jesus Christ at the center of every area of family life” (page 20).  They break this down into three biblical priorities:

  • home nurture (“Shepherding Your Child’s Spirit to Long for God”)
  • home discipleship (“Shaping Your Child’s Heart to Live for God”)
  • home education (“Strengthening Your Child’s Mind to Learn for God”).

Of these three, I think the first is the one I find most challenging.  “The heart of home nurture is bringing the living Christ into all that you do through the life of the Holy Spirit and through the living and active Word of God” (page 20).

Why do I find it so hard to expose my children to the living God?  He has done so much for me.  My own faith burns fiercely in my heart.  Surely some of that must overflow into my life.  I pray my children can see it.  Yet I feel like I am sorely lacking in this area.  I feel like I get so caught up in the day to day business of running a home and accomplishing everything that needs to be done when there are four little ones in the house that my children don’t really catch more than a tiny glimpse of who I really am, of who God really is, of how He moves in my life and directs my steps.

More than anything, I want my children to long for God.  As I read what the Clarksons have said about home nurture, I feel a deficit that I pray the Lord will help to fill.  I love this quote by Rev. Andrew Murray in the sidebar on page 20:

To take charge of an immortal soul, to train a will for God and eternity, surely we ought to shrink from it.  But we cannot.  If we are parents, the duty is laid upon us.  But, thank God!  Sufficient grace is prepared and promised, too.

Sufficient grace.  I will trust in You, Lord.

Home Education is not School at Home (Mentoring Monday)

Educating the WholeHearted Child: Preface and Introduction

Each Mentoring Monday I share my reflections on what I’ve been learning from my “paper mentors.”  Over the next few months, I’m going to be joining a book discussion of Educating the WholeHearted Child by Clay Clarkson (with Sally Clarkson).  If you want to join in, visit our Facebook discussion group page.

WholeHeartedOur first reading assignment is the Preface and Introduction, and even just these few pages have whet my appetite for the feast that is to come as we make our way through this rich book.  In them, Clay and Sally describe what homeschooling looks like to them: “In a time when you are faced with a confusing and often frustrating array of educational choices for how to homeschool, we simply want to share our vision of WholeHearted Learning–a biblical, commonsense, discipleship-based lifestyle of home education using real books, real life, and real relationships” (p.x).

I love this.  It describes everything I want our homeschool experience to be.  And yet it is so easy for me to get caught up in the “school” part of homeschooling.  Maybe part of that stems from not only growing up in traditional schools but also being born into a family of teachers (my mom, my aunt, their cousins, my brother, his wife… me).  I only spent 3 years in the classroom myself, but even that short amount of time shaped me as a teacher in a ways that aren’t necessarily compatible with this ideal.

I want our homeschooling to be a lifestyle.  Maybe I need to be more intentional about focusing on “home education” rather than “home school.” I want to “declare [my] independence from conventional schooling and establish a new outpost of spiritual, personal, and academic freedom within the walls of [my] home” (p.13). We’re not trying to do school at home.  While I try to stay away from traditional textbooks, mentally I still tend to get stuck in a school rut.  I’ve caught the vision for what the Clarkson describe, but I need to be constantly reminded in order to actually walk that out.  I’m hoping that reading through this book will help to lay down new grooves to help me break out of those old patterns and start falling into a different kind of lifestyle for our family.

Home education is not our primary goal–home nurture and discipleship are, and home education is simply the natural extension of those biblical principles” (p.14).  In some ways I think we’ve gotten off to a pretty good start for this and are headed in the right direction, but I want to keep this vision in the forefront of my mind. “Your role as a home-educating parent, then, is to provide a rich and lively living and learning environment in which your children can exercise their God-given drive to learn and then to biblically train and instruct your children within the natural context of your home and family life” (p.15).

Yes.  God, help me to make it so.

 

Little Red Riding Hood

Little Red Riding Hood, Isabel Oakley Naftel (1862)

It’s been a while since we spent time focusing on a fairy tale, so we took a break from Five in a Row to have fun with Little Red Riding Hood.  (See posts we’ve done on other classics.)  I love this story, maybe because it has a redeeming ending.  The little girl makes mistakes and certainly suffers the consequences, but in the end things work out and she learns important lessons, like the importance of obedience and not talking to strangers.  Hopefully our children can benefit from her mistakes!

Part of the reason I chose to do the story now is because it corresponded with our Salsa Spanish lessons. We just started the second unit, which has six videos related to “Caperucita Roja,” so we were able to learn some vocabulary words to go along with our story.  (We use the Salsamaterials from the Wyoming Department of Education to get the most out of the videos.)

We looked at several versions:

We’ve talked before about how sometimes old stories like fairy tales are told differently by different people, so I asked Ian to find differences in two versions and we listed them.

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We watched a Super Why episode that features the story of Red Riding Hood (Season 1, Episode 9) and enjoyed a free Kindle Fire App. By this point Arianna was pretty familiar with the tale and had lots of fun wearing part of an old Red Hiding Hood costume I had as a child.

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We had a blast going through many of the activities in the FREE Little Red Riding Hood Pack from 123homeschool4me.com!  I loved that there were several pages simple enough for Arianna (2), but also several pages that challenged Ian (6).  I went crazy with my laminator and then we spent a whole morning playing with all the goodies in this pack.  (I also put some of the pages in sheet protectors in the boys’ notebooks.)  So much fun learning!

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Egglo Entertainment (Crew Review)

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Trying to find a way to include Jesus in your Easter celebration?  We recently had the chance to review a line of products from Egglo Entertainment that are designed to bring the message that Jesus is the Light of the World into Easter Egg hunts.  I received The Egg-cellent Easter Adventure, a book about three children who go on an adventure and discover the true meaning of Easter, and Glow in the Dark Egglo Eggs, and even though we were using them before the Easter season, they were a big hit in our house.  After all, hunting for glow-in-the-dark eggs is fun no matter when you do it!  (And since our family usually try to keep egg-related activities separate from Resurrection Sunday, it worked especially well for us to use these now.)

There are several products available for purchase on the website to help you make your egg hunt a meaningful activity, so let me tell you about the ones we used.  (All prices are current at time of publishing.) Obviously the most important thing is the Glow in the Dark Egglo Eggs ($9.99).  The Egglo Treasures Scripture Scrolls ($4.29) are great for putting inside them to make it clear that this isn’t just another hunt for candy-filled eggs, glow-in-the-dark or not.  If you want to use the story, The Egg-cellent Easter Adventure, the print form of the book is available for $9.99, and there’s also an audiobook in mp4 format you can download for $2.99.

The Egg-cellent Easter Adventure Program Guide Curriculum ($14.99)is full of suggestions for a church-hosted event.  (Many of the ideas can also be adapted for family use).  It has printable invitations, decorations, coloring pages, themed snack suggestions (like torches made from pretzels and marshmallows), devotions, Easter party games and activities, and lots of tips for helping you plan a successful event for children and their families.  The website has a lot of ideas to check out as well.  I especially liked the page titled Egglo All-Year Round, which was full of suggestions to use the eggs in ways other than an Easter egg hunt.

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Our Experience with Egglo Entertainment 

The first thing we did read The Egg-cellent Easter Adventure.  The illustrations are colorful and fun, and while the story is a bit fantastic, the boys enjoyed the many different parts of the adventure as the characters visited Ancient Egypt, a sunken pirate ship, and an erupting volcano before ending up at a shining cross in a beautiful garden full of gentle animals living in harmony with one another.

Egglo1Later on we did an egg hunt in the dark.  I filled the eggs with the Egglo Treasures Scripture Scrolls and a couple small candies and then hid them in places where their glow would be sure to show once I turned out the lights and set the boys loose.  They loved seeing the light of the eggs around our living room and collecting them!   (I wish I knew more about photography so I could have done a better job capturing some of the fun moments.)  My kids especially loved the tiny scrolls, both because they’re such cute miniatures and because they’re like the scrolls in the book.  Different Bible verses pertaining to the gospel message, especially verses about Jesus as the Light of the World, are paraphrased on the scrolls.

Kids wanted to do the egg hunt over and over, but as the eggs lost their glow we had to wait until dark the next night.  (The eggs charge best in sunlight, taking about 20 minutes in direct exposure, but we found they really needed total darkness to glow well, which meant waiting until after the sun had gone down, which of course meant they lost some of their intensity.  We found it best to just charge them in our kitchen’s fluorescent lights instead for about 40 minutes and then turn out all the lights in the house, even covering up LED lights that interfered with the searching).  We did this every night for a week!  The three older kids delighted in taking turns hiding the eggs and then seeking them out, especially when my husband and I were the appointed “seekers.” (This program is ideal for roughly ages 4-13, but certainly it can be adapted to include other ages.  Arianna (2) was too little to get much out of the book and the scrolls, but she loved joining in with her brothers when it came to playing with the eggs and admiring the glow.)

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We ended first egg hunt with a more solemn time of teaching as we read through the Bible verse on their scrolls and talked about what they mean.  Since my kids love listening to audiobooks as they go to sleep, the mp3 of the book was a great way to keep emphasizing the teaching about Jesus.  I also let the boys each take an egg into bed with them to enjoy its glow as they fell asleep (an idea I got from the Egglo All-Year Round page).

My favorite thing about the Egglo products is the message.  In world darkened by sin, we want to look for the light. Just as our children hunt for the glowing eggs in the dark, we hope they will seek out Jesus, the Light of the world.  Our family really enjoyed reading the story and playing with the eggs, but my prayer is that the message will stick in my children’s hearts so that whenever they remember the fun times we had, they will also remember the Truth that was represented by those glowing eggs.

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Introducing Mentoring Monday

WholeHeartedTonight I had the pleasure of watching a webinar with Sally Clarkson as she shared about her heart for homeschooling.  Some of the moms watching were chatting and decided to start up a group to go through Clay Clarkson’s book Educating the WholeHearted Child, which I read a few years ago but have been meaning to go through again.  I have been so encouraged and challenged by the Clarksons, both through their MomHeart conferences and their books, and I consider them mentors even though they have no idea who I am.  I decided that in addition to reading through the book with the other moms in the Facebook discussion group, I want to jot down some of my thoughts about each chapter here to help keep myself accountable for actually sticking to the schedule we come up with!  I may or may not write every week, but I want to try to share somewhat regularly what I am learning from the “paper mentors” in my life.

Lent: Looking forward to New Life

Lent1Our family so enjoyed the sacredness of celebrating Advent that I decided I wanted to do something for Lent this year to make this season a holy celebration as well.  Usually when I think of Lent, I think “fasting,” but really the season is about so much more than that.  I’m not sure how much our children would understand the concept at their ages and whether they could really choose to give something up on their own.  I don’t want the season to be remembered for how much they resented me taking away their sweets or screen time. So instead, I’m choosing to use a “Lenten Tree” to represent God bringing us new life.

Throughout the season we will add leaves, flowers, and ornaments to transform our barren “tree” into a lush symbol of Christ’s triumph over death.  I’ll share a little more about how those things will get added as we move toward the celebration of the Resurrection.

To see how our tree came to life, check out The Resurrection: Letting Go of Expectations.

When I Was Young in the Mountains

Last week Five in a Row took us to Appalachia with When I was Young in the Mountains by Cynthia Rylant.  It’s a sweet story that sparked several questions from Ian and Elijah.  So in addition to the lessons we did from the Five in a Row (Vol.) 2 manual, we took a few rabbit trails, which led to lots of learning!

Every time we read the first page, about how the little girl’s grandfather would kiss her on the forehead because he was so dirty from working in the coal mines that only his lips were clean, Ian asked, “Why was he so dirty?”  Finally I went hunting for a video on coal mining.  The best thing I could find was an episode of the show Dirty Jobs, which was available to watch streaming on Amazon (free for Prime members).  Episode 30 features a segment about coal mining.  (PARENT ADVISORY: the first half of the episode is on a different job and contained some rough language.  It was really too bad, because I think my boys would both really enjoy this show, but with a few bad words thrown in occasionally, it’s just not suitable for children.  I did end up letting my boys watch the coal mining segment with me, but we talked about using pure words and not copying people who don’t. I know many parents would choose not to show it to their children, so definitely watch it first.  If you know of a better video to learn something about coal mining, please comment below!)

At one point in the story, the girl talks about hearing the call of a bobwhite.  The boys wondered what that was, and since I knew nothing beyond the fact that it was a bird, we did a little research together.  The boys enjoyed seeing pictures of bobwhites and especially listening to recordings of a bobwhite’s call.  After that, every time we read this part of the story, Ian would imitate the birdcall.

The children’s lives in this story are very different from ours in many ways.  After we had read through the story a few times, I had Ian point out differences.  We talked about how the girl was poor and yet she seemed very content with her life.  I wanted to find a video that brought the Appalachian world alive for the boys, so we watched the pilot episode from the old television series Christy.  It’s about a young woman who goes to teach in a one-room schoolhouse (which doubles as a church, like in When I Was Young in the Mountains) in a small community tucked back in the hills of Tennessee.  Elijah lost interest after a while, but Ian enjoyed watching it with me.

For our last activity, Ian wrote his own story in a style like Cynthia Rylant.  I asked him to share about things remembers from when we lived with Grandma and Grandpa in their house in the hills.  I typed out his memories and then he illustrated the first one.

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Such fun memories!

 

Science4Us.com (Crew Review)

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I want to love science.  It teaches us about God’s world and leaves me in awe of His infinite creativity and remarkably complex design.  Yet when it comes to homeschooling, the word “science” starts to fill me with dread.  I want to find a way to teach my children about the wonderful world God has created in a way that doesn’t seem dreary and dull (as I remember my science lessons being when I was a child).  Science4Us.com is something I probably would never have sought out on my own, but when I was given a Science4Us.com Online Subscription to review I was pleasantly surprised by this wonderful program designed specifically for Kindergarten through second grade.

Ian caught glimpses of the website before I found out I was going to get to review it and was intrigued.  So by the time I was able to access the site he was very excited.  When the student signs on, they see a screen like this :

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Once I showed Ian how to choose a “book” of science (physical science, inquiry, life science, or earth/space science) he had no problem taking off on his own and exploring the site, which contains over 350 lessons! He was immediately drawn to the section on “force and motion” and then chose the module on simple machines and the proceeded to go through the entire lesson in one sitting.  I kept telling him he didn’t have to do it all, that he could save some for the next day, but he insisted that he wanted to finish the lesson.  I think it took him about an hour.  (The next morning he immediately went to the computer and finished two complete modules on motion and space.)

My first impression was very positive, and it only get better over the course of the time we were reviewing it.  The activities were full of information but short enough to not be boring.  There were several activities where it was helpful to know how to read, but not necessary because they provided an option to have it read aloud with a simple click.  He really liked the “Syllables with Silly Bulls” activity, which provides spelling and reading practice for the student as he puts together the words.  Ian also got his first experience putting words in alphabetical order, something he probably would have dragged his feet at if I just sat him down to do it, but which was “fun” because it was on the computer.

Science4Us.com is built upon the “5E Inquiry-Based Instruction Module”:

  • Engage
  • Explore
  • Explain
  • Elaborate
  • Evaluate

Each lesson has a series of activities that take the student through these five stages of learning.  The program is web-based, but there is more to it than just the online activities.  If you sign in as a teacher you can find a teacher guide and offline materials to go along with each lesson.

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If Ian were older I would have spent more time utilizing those resources, but as a Kindergarten science curriculum I found the online activities alone to be plenty.  He really enjoyed working through lessons on all sorts of subjects, and since he was excited about science, I decided to really follow his lead and stick with just the online portion of the program.

Things we loved

  • There is lots of teacher support.  You can assign certain lessons, view the student’s notebook, and watch training videos to help you get the most out of the program.
  • There is SO much integration of literacy and math skills.
  • I especially liked how it helped Ian put together on online “notebook” where he created pages about what he was learning.
  • I love the connection to everyday life.  As Ian was going through a lesson on heat, he came across a picture of a scientist using a thermometer just like one we happen to have at home.  He came racing out to find it and was so excited that what he was learning about was “real.”

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Things we would have liked a little different:

Science4Us.com is an excellent program, and there’s not really anything I didn’t like about the way it is presented to the students.  However, as a homeschool parent there were a couple things I would have changed.

  • The cost of the program is $7.95 per child per month.  As a homeschooler, a family price would have been more beneficial.  My 4-year old saw what Ian was doing and wanted to copy him.  I was generously given a subscription for both boys, so he was able to sign on himself to do some lessons.  However, some of the work was beyond him, and I wouldn’t have chosen to pay for a subscription for him as he used it a lot less than Ian.  While it makes sense for a school to pay a cost per student for all the students in a certain grade, families have a different dynamic since there are students at different levels who might not be able to utilize the full program but would still benefit from being able to use it.
  • The way of viewing the records of what has been accomplished seems geared more toward a school setting.  As a classroom teacher I can see wanting to view what every student has done on a particular subject.  However, as a homeschool teacher, I would have liked a way to see all the things a single student has done in the entire program on one page, but I could only find a way to look at one subject at a time.  (I am told they are working on adding this.)

Overall I would say Science4Us.com is a great Kindergarten science curriculum for students who enjoy spending time on the computer.  Whether you have your student go through it systematically, assigning specific lessons and working through each book of science one at a time, or just let them explore and follow their own interests, they will learn a lot, have fun, and develop a love for science that will carry them on to more in depth study as they get older.

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Soul Care for the Homeschool Mom

lakexsThis past weekend I was blessed with the chance to get away with about thirty other homeschool moms for a few days of refreshment and encouragement.  The theme of our retreat was “The Lord is my Shepherd,” and we spent some time meditating on Psalm 23.  As I dive back into our every day life, I’m surprised by how much easier it is to get through coming off the “high” of the retreat.

“…He makes me lie down in green pastures.  He leads me beside still waters.  He restores my soul…”

It is so essential that we trust the Lord to take care of us and allow Him to truly be our Shepherd.  Maybe you can’t get away for a weekend retreat (although if you have the opportunity, don’t hesitate to jump on it!), but there are many other ways God can restore the soul of a weary homeschool mom.

Sometimes I have the luxury of sitting down to read a book.  (I recommend anything by Sally Clarkson!)  Other times I really need to get some laundry folded so I’ll put on some kind of audio recording like a podcast, sermon, lecture, interview, etc.

I’ve shared many times before on what a great tool an iPod is for teaching our children, but I also use it a lot for me.  (I actually have very little music on it that’s not related to my children, but I have lots of audiobooks, sermons, and other spoken word recordings.)  I discovered podcasts back when I was pregnant with Ian and couldn’t believe what an amazing resource they are.  I have learned so much from listening to others share their wisdom through this medium (all for FREE)! Search on iTunes for “homeschool convention” and you’ll find hours of free listening from various conventions that can encourage you or offer insight on some aspect of homeschooling that might be frustrating you.  There also several podcasts that regularly offer encouragement to homeschool moms (try Inspired to Action, That Mom, or search for interviews by Sally Clarkson or Heidi St. John), though some of them are too short for my taste.  (I don’t really like brief podcasts.  I don’t want to be running over to the iPod/computer every 5-minutes to put on a new one.  I don’t even want to change topics that often.  So I tend to stick with longer recordings.)  Search for your favorite authors. Many times I’ve found recordings of interviews they’ve done around a book release.  I love getting to hear their voices imparting wisdom to me in my living room!

When am I supposed to find the time?

That’s the problem, isn’t it?  Sometimes it’s just a matter of priorities, making the choice to care for your soul instead of some time-sucking activity.  Other times it’s just downright hard.  For me, naptime is golden.  My oldest is six, and maybe he doesn’t always need an afternoon nap, but I need a little time out each day.  He always benefits from some quiet time, even if he read or listens to an audiobook the entire time.  In our house, all the children are lying on their beds from about 1-3 each day (depending on when we finish lunch). It helps keep us all sane (especially because my husband doesn’t usually get home until about 7:30, which makes for a VERY long day when you’re home alone with four small children).

If it’s not realistic for your family to have everyone lie down, there are other ways to carve out a little time in your day to take care of yourself.  I like the idea of “quiet time bags” that I read about in a post by Elizabeth Curry published at Heart of the Matter.  It might take some training, but I think this would work really well with my children.  Another great idea is “Station Rotation.” I read this idea from Beneath My Heart a while back and have been clinging to the idea ever since.  I don’t need it yet because we have naps, but I know there will be a day when this is going to save my sanity.

The Good Shepherd takes care of His sheep.  “He leads me beside still waters.”  Will we stop and take the time to rest there?

KinderBach (Crew Review)

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Our family has chosen to make music an important part of our children’s education from an early age, so I was happy to be given the chance to review The KinderBach Online Piano Lesson Membership with Teacher Corner over the last six weeks.  This one-year online membership currently costs $95.88 (regularly $130), which breaks down to $7.99 per month. Kinderbach ReviewIn other words, KinderBach has made it easy to start teaching piano to young children at home for far less money than it would cost to take private lessons.  The lessons are laid out so that even parents with no prior musical knowledge or experience can teach their children (and learn alongside them!) with ease.

Since Ian (age 6) already has over two years of lessons behind him (and even the Level 6 sessions were teaching things he already knew), I decided that Elijah (age 4) would be my main student as we went through the program.  Arianna (2) also participated in many of the activities, and Ian often chose to join us because he didn’t want to be left out of the fun the other two were having.  It was helpful for him to review certain concepts.  (Elijah has also started music lessons, but because it’s so new to him and because this material was presented in such a different way, it was a good complement to what he is already learning.)  I saw musical growth in all three kids as a result of going through the program, especially in Elijah.

Components of the KinderBach program

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The KinderBach website says it is geared toward children ages 3-7, and I think it would work well for any student in that window, though I would probably move through at a rather rapid pace with children on the older end.  There are 6 levels altogether, containing a total of 60 weeks of lessons.  (You can access the first two weeks of level one lessons for free to try it out.) Each week consists of 4 short video sessions.  It’s possible to do all 4 sessions in one sitting, and we often did that many (sometimes even more).  I really just tried to gauge how interested the kids were.  On the rare occasion that they weren’t really into it, we’d just do one and come back the next day.

The videos are designed to go along with a physical activity, rhythm instruments, time at the piano/keyboard, or a page in the activity books.   Through the course of the lesson, students are introduced to fun characters that “live” on the keyboard, helping them to learn the letter names of the notes.  For example, “Dodi” lives in the middle of each set of two black notes, which is the note “D”, though the children don’t learn that until later.  (His neighbors, Carla Caterpillar and Edward Eagle, along with other friends, are introduced a bit later on.)

Kinderbach ReviewThe videos are streamed online (or available on DVD for additional purchase), but you can download mp3s of the songs from the Teacher’s Corner (where you can also find lesson plans for using the program in a classroom setting).  The activity books are also available to download, either as a whole book, or as individual pages linked under each video.  I found this feature especially helpful because it meant there was no preparation needed.  Once we opened the page for the video we were on, we just clicked on the link to get the page that went along with that part of the lesson.  It made it easy to go at whatever pace we wanted to.  I didn’t print out every page (some didn’t work well for our family, as I’ll explain below), but the kids really enjoyed doing these practice book pages.

My Assessment of KinderBach

I think KinderBach would work best for students/families with little to no musical training.  I found the pace to be very slow and deliberate, with concepts broken down into tiny pieces that are introduced in a manner that was unnecessarily drawn out for my children who are already familiar with many aspects of music.  It wasn’t until Week 19 that they actually played a basic 3-note pattern (C-D-E) on the piano.  However, this gradual approach would probably be very helpful for young children or families with parents who are learning alongside their children and want to be sure they don’t miss anything.

The program creates a whole new way of naming and notating music, simplifying the technical terms to more “child-friendly” designations. Instead of letter names, the different keys on the piano are represented by the “piano pals” I mentioned above.  For rhythms they use terms like “walk” for a quarter note and “standing” for a half note.  I understand that they’re trying to make it easier for children to remember, but I’m not sure it’s necessary (or helpful) to teach them one way when they’re going to have to end up learning it another way later. I see no reason not to just teach them the proper terms from the start. (In fact, in one of the sessions they started by showing a half note and asked, “What is this called?”  Elijah promptly answered, “A half note!” (earlier that had been given as the “grown-up” word for it and he remembered), but then he was disappointed when they said, “That’s right!  ‘Standing.'”  I assured him that he was correct too.  It just seemed a little odd that he would be wrong when he was really right.  These nicknames made it rather hard to read the “music” when it was time to play at the piano, at least for Elijah, who is already used to reading quarter notes on a traditional staff (which is what he was taught from his first piano lesson).  Here’s an example of a KinderBach “pre-staff” music page:

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Maybe if a child didn’t already have a frame of reference for what music is supposed to look like they would be able to follow this with no problem, but our family found it confusing so I chose not to use these pages.  Instead, I used the terms he was already familiar with and showed him the notes on a staff so he could follow along with real sheet music.  I was a little surprised by how long it took the program to introduce the children to actual written music.  From what I could find, it wasn’t until the end of Level 6 that they start to read regular notes on a staff.

The slow pace and the alternative terminology were fairly easy for our family to adjust so that the program could still work well for us.  These criticisms probably have more to do with my background than with the KinderBach program itself.  I started music lessons at age 4 in a program that taught us how to read music from the first day and put a heavy emphasis on ear training.  After going on to earn a Bachelor of Music degree, I chose to put my children through that same program because I saw how much the program helped me develop as a musician.  So I’ve seen many children reading traditional sheet music before they turned 4 and prefer going that route.  For a parent without my background, however, this simplified “prestaff” system might be very useful in helping their children get started in learning to read and play music.

A bigger issue for us had to do with pitch.   In the lessons that talked about “music patterns” (referring to three notes that either stayed at the same pitch or moved up or down), there were a couple recurring pitch problems.  KinderBach snap2First there was the background music, playing in one key while the piano played a music pattern unrelated to the music we were hearing.  Then the piano would play the pattern and the teacher would sing it back like he was copying it, except he never sang the same notes that the piano had played.  Maybe this was intentional to show that the pattern could happen starting on any pitch, but since we are teaching our children that hitting a specific pitch is important, these lessons just came across as being indifferent to which pitch had been played.  As I said before, ear training is a major component of the music education program our family follows, so this was a serious issue for me, though I’m sure many music educators would have no problem with it.  I simply tried to distract Elijah and anyone else listening when these pitch problems occurred in the videos.  Then I repeated the same information using the correct pitches.

We had a similar issue in the few lessons that used solfege.  My children have been taught solfege using a “fixed do” (where C is always “do”), but KinderBach used a “movable do” (the first time they used solfege they were singing F and D, calling them sol mi).  Obviously for most people this wouldn’t be an issue (and few people would even understand what I’m talking about if they’re not familiar with an ear-training program that uses fixed do), but if you do understand and care about fixed do vs. movable do, it’s something to consider.

KinderBach2On a more positive note, there were several things I really liked about KinderBach.  The Piano Pals make it easy to learn the letter names of the notes, and even my 2-year old now knows how to find them on the piano, thanks to the fun little cards the boys colored to place above the keys.  I also appreciated the emphasis on playing with the correct finger position, on the tip, to “make them strong.”   This is something Ian struggles with and it’s always nice to have him hearing it from someone else.

KinderBach1My favorite thing about the program was the way they used the concept of music patterns.  I had never seen this idea taught before, and it was a wonderful way to introduce composition.  Both Elijah and Ian were eager to do the activities that had them arranging pitch patterns to create their own songs.  They spent a good deal of time figuring out how they wanted to put the patterns together and then proudly sang finished products.  I look forward to doing more lessons on composition and helping the boys explore the wonderful possibilities of creating their own music.

Overall, I’d say KinderBach is a excellent, economical introductory program for teaching music to young children if you’re looking for a traditional approach to piano lessons without any special emphasis on ear training.  If you’re at all intrigued by what I’ve shared, I would encourage you to find out more. Explore the KinderBach website.  Click the banner below to read what other members of the Schoolhouse Review Crew have to say.  (I’ve read several of the reviews, and everyone has something new to say about it, so this really is a great way to learn more.)  And don’t forget to check out KinderBach on Facebook, or Twitter (@KinderBach) for special deals!

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